Sunday, March 29, 2009

VACATIONS OVER
























































We got home today from our trip to Colorado. The weather was wonderful, although we did have some snow while we were there. This is great for people from Alabama who sees snow maybe every other year or so. Everything cleared up fast and we were only house bound for one day.

The grand kids kept us real busy and we enjoyed spending time with them. We had a day at Chuckie Cheese and played all the games, rode all the rides and ate pizza and sandwiches. ( which were pretty darn good.)
Of course I have never seen a pizza yet that I didn't like.

We took one day and carried Sarah and all the kids to the Cliff Dwelling and a drive through the Garden of the Gods. This gave Sondra time to get some work done. This was the day the snow storm came through and we were about half way through the drive when it started snowing. By the time we got back to Sondra's, John could hardly see how to drive.
We didn't make it to the top of Pike's Peak this time, but will try that on the next visit. The view of the mountains was just breath taking. I can't believe there so many houses in any given area. Looking out over the area it was just a sea of houses but not to many trees. This was amazing to me since you can't look out the window without seeing trees every where here at home.
Jonathan celebrated his 39 th birthday while we were there. Sondra made him a carrot cake, which is his favorite. We didn't get to spend to much time with him. because he was away on business most of the week.
We helped Sondra hang curtains and pictures and move furniture around so I guess you might say we had a very productive week. And of course no flight would be complete without my arial pictures. As you can see there was a lot of snow left on the ground. Luckily we were able to enjoy the snow without it interferring with our trip.
We had a wonderful time, but now it is time for me to get back in the groove of working. 4:45 a.m. comes early in the morning so I need to start making arrangements for the week ahead.

Friday, March 20, 2009

SPRING BREAK

Well it is finally that time of the year again and the most hectic month we have had in a long while. Everyone is having parties, spring fling, karate camp you name it we have had it. Now it is my week to kick back and relax, if I have enough energy left to do that.

We are going to Colorado for the week. Hope the weather is nice. I plan on bringing back lots of pictures. "The more to bore you with":) Hopefully I will have some interesting stories to tell you when we get back.

If you are also off this week, have a safe and funfilled vacation.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMILY
















Today is Emily's 8th birthday. We had dinner at Johnny and Tracy's house tonight and played charades. This was Emily's game chose. That game is really harder than you realize.

I think John kind of ticked her off, because he had told her last week that he was going get her a horse for her birthday. She knew he couldn't get one, but secretly hoped that we would come pulling a horse in behind the van. I told him he shouldn't tease her like that.

Johnny and John Pearson spent the whole day sitting at Med Plus waiting to see a doctor. John Pearson broke his thumb in PE on Friday and it had turned black and green. Now he will have to go to bone doctor and have the same things done again.
I can't believe Emily is already 8 years old. It seems just yesterday that I would sit and rock her and when I would stop singing to her, she would start going hmmm. hmmm., hmmmm. She love the sound of singing.
Well Emily since Grandaddy didn't get you a horse, I posted a picture of the horses in the pasture behind us. Hope you had a wonderful birthday

Happy birthday emily!!. we love you mowmaw and grandaddy.

(Happy birthday Emily!! We love you MawMaw and Grandaddy.)










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Thursday, March 12, 2009

LOOSING FAITH


I have been hearing on the news for the last couple of weeks about the survey that talks about Americans loosing their faith. This is very disturbing to me.


People say that part of the reason they are loosing faith is because of the economy, the war and the loss of jobs. These are all reasons to be concerned about our life styles and safety, but I don't understand how this can make us loose our faith in God. Every since the beginning of time there have been famines, there have been wars that have almost wiped out

nations, and here in the United States the great Depression that left practically every family completely broke, unable to feed their families and no jobs to be had. In all of these times people have found their faith to be a rock to cling to and help them find the strength to start again.


I saw an interview yesterday with a young woman holding her baby on her hip talking to the newsperson. He was asking her about loosing faith and this was her comment. "I can see why people are loosing faith, it is bad when you can't even go into the store and buy a Coke." What in the world does that have to do with faith. I might have felt a little pity if she had said that I can't even buy my baby a bottle of milk. But a Coke? Makes me think that she didn't have much faith to loose.


This is my opinion, but I think we are failing our children, our grandchildren and generations to come by not instilling a little faith, religion and just plain morals into their lives. We have let the government take prayer out of school, displaying the Ten Commandments can get you jail time and morals are anything goes. We all know that it just continues to get worse. I think it is time that each of us should stand and say, "Yes, I do believe in God". "Yes I do believe that God answers prayers, but some times the answer is NO". "Yes I do believe that we should love our
neighbor, but we don't have to always love what our neighbors are doing."
"Yes sometimes our faith is shaken, but it would be harder to live without faith at all".

If our nations falls it is not because God doesn't like us anymore, it is because we don't like God anymore. Let's get our priorities straight

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

SOUNDS LIKE LIFE TO ME

As I was going into work this morning, I heard a song on the radio called
" It sounds like life to me". It was by Daryle Worley and was a catchy tune about a man that had fallen off the wagon, because of all the things going wrong in his life. After each bad thing he said had happened the refrain was "It sounds like life to me".

The song kind of stuck with me today and in all my conversations with my co-workers and all the things they spoke about, the sad, the pitiful and the just plain aggravating, I would think to myself "It sounds like life to me".

We all face obstacles. You may not get the respect that we need or deserve from your bosses or co-workers, but you do not loose the love of your family. You may not make the team, but you are still NO. 1 to someone. You may not be the most beautiful or most handsome, but
you are drop dead gorgeous to someone. Does that "Sound like life to you'.

We all would like to change some of the things we have said and or done.
There are things we wish we had done and will never get the second chance to do. Most of us would like to weigh 20 lbs less and have a magic wrinkle remover but..........

"It Sounds Like Life to Me".

Monday, March 9, 2009

FRANK LLOYD WRIGHT DESIGN
























































I figured you had heard enough silliness for a couple of days and looked for something a little more cultured to post:) I was going through some pictures that we had taken in the last year or so and came across these pictures of the Rosenbaum home in Florence Al.

This house was designed by the famous Frank Lloyd Wright. It is one of the few built in Al. It was amazing to go through the house. It was designed for a place for everything and everything in its place. Apparently they raised four boys in this house. Their bedroom looks almost like a dormitory and I think that is what they called it, with four beds built in a bunk bed design on the back wall. One side of the room is all windows. ( I have a hard time imagining any of mine sharing this space without someone horsing around and going through the window). There were desk built in ,the closets were very tiny and the drawers were all built in the wall. You can see the drawers in the picture above. They had to be well organized people.

The dining room is very basic with a wood table built almost like a table/ bar that fits 6 chairs. The original kitchen was the most compact kitchen you have ever seen. It was almost like a closet that you could close off when entertaining. Stove on one wall, sink on one wall and the refrigerator on the third wall. All the halls are very narrow less than 30" in width.

I loved the sewing room. Some of Mrs Rosenbaum's handiwork is on display. It is just a very unusual home design. I think the furniture had to be carried in through the doors that opened from each room to the outside. There is no way anything could be carried down the narrow halls.

If I could find my brochure I could give more details. If you every get a chance to visit Florence, it may be one of the places to put on your list of things to see.

Hope someone enjoys these pictures. ( Todd I posted these with you in mind).










Thursday, March 5, 2009

HOW EMBARASSING IS THAT?

One day Sandra and I decided that we would meet at her house and fire up the big black pot and make homemade chicken stew. John and I arrived at 7:30 to find that Sandra wasn't home. I guess she had gone to the store to pick up something we had forgotton for the stew.

We sat in the car waiting for about 15 minutes when nature called in a very loud voice. I got out of the car went to every door in her house and even a couple of windows, but everything was locked up tight as a drum.
I came back and told John that I had to find a restroom, so off we went as fast as the speed limit would let us go. We finally stopped at Shoney's and I made a bee line for the restroom. I lined the toilet and sat down, "major relief". After a few minutes I wash my hands, gave my hair a comb through with my fingers, checked to see if my lipstick was still on and walked back to the car.

We went back to Sandra's and by this time she was home. We go in and start getting our things ready when she says " Pat do you have a bad cold" and I tell her, "No. Why"? and she says " Well what are you doing with that toilet paper hanging out of you pants. Oh my goodness. I reached into the back waistband and hanging there was a string of toilet paper about 2 feet long. Evidently when I pulled my jeans up the paper had caught. I walked through Shoney's, out the door and past the whole front of the building with this toilet paper hanging like a giant long white tail.

Needless to say, it was quite a while before I returned to Shoney's.

With that said, and I can't believe I just put that into my blog, I will give you the recipe for:

HOMEMADE CHICKEN STEW

3 lbs chicken ( dark and light meat)
4 lbs potatoes ( red are the best)
1 large onion
1 large can of tomato juice
1 can cream style corn
Salt and pepper to taste

Boil chicken until tender. Pull chicken from bone and save broth. Add potatoes, onion, tomato juice, salt, pepper and pulled chicken to broth. Cook until potatoes and onions are done. If you stir it often the potatoes will break up and the stew will start to get thick. Add the cream style corn the last 15 minutes. The corn helps the stew to thicken more.

Serve with crackers or white bread and cheddar cheese. I always add about teaspoon of dill pickle juice to bowl. Yummy!

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

NO. 1 EMBARASSING MOMENT

When I was in high school, I took all the business classes and was pretty good at short hand and typed 85 or 90 words a minute. When you were typing on an old Royal electric or just a plain manual typewriter, that was pretty darn good.

Well I graduated at 18 and was not the most confident teenager in the world, but knew it was time to either get a job, go to college or get married. Since John had not come along at that time, I had to opt for the first two. I took my ACT test but didn't feel that I did as well as I should so I never went back to get my score.

My Dad insisted that I go over to the TVA employment office and take their secretarial test. I went because if Daddy told me to jump my only question was "how high?. Well I got there and the room was was full of women of all ages hopeful of landing a job with TVA. I could feel the tension rising from my stomach, up into my throat, my palms were sweating and when I looked down my hands were shaking visiblely. We all took a seat in front of a type writer, got our paper inserted and waited for the instructor to give us directions. In the mean time I am about to get sick from the tension. The instructor tells us what we are supposed to do and that the test will last for five minute and we will be graded on the number of words we get right per minute.

She set the timer and says now start. I start typing and glance down after the first few words, everything is going great. I start to relax and the tension is lessening in my shoulders, my head starts to clear and I think, why was I so afraid. I continue typing like a demon, my fingers are literally flying across the keyboard. The bell goes off indicating that the test is over and I breath a sigh of relief. Then I look down at my paper and this is what I see.

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After the first line where I glanced up to see if I was doing OK, I got my fingers in the wrong position, and the rest of the five minutes I didn't hit a single right key. Well being the naive person that I was, instead of taking the paper, folding it and putting it in my purse, I did like the instructor said and put my name in the right hand corner and left it on my desk. I can't even imagine the laugh that those people got out of my typing test. I figure that somewhere, on some wall, in some personel office still hangs my infamous TVA typing test.

Needless to say I did not pursue a career in office management.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

EMILY'S BAPTISIM





















Today was Emily's baptism into the Catholic Church. It was a real special day for the whole family. Mark and Monica were her Godparents and were both able to make it in for the ceremony. Father Andy was the celebrant.



When we got up this morning there was about 2" of snow on the ground, and believe it or not 2" of snow in Alabama can completely paralyze the whole area. As it turned out the roads were not cold enough for the snow to stick on them and it was just a beautiful white morning and everything had melted by the time we got out of church.

Johnny and Tracy took us out to Olive Garden after church and we had a nice meal and time to sit and talk and laugh. I would post the silly pictures we all made at the restruant, but I want do that and take away from Emily's special day. Maybe I will post them at a later date.

I wish all the family could have been here to celebrate with her, but it is almost impossible to get everyone together at the same time now. Sondra, David and Jonathan had taken care of Luke and Charlotte while Sarah and Cody came down to close out the sale of their house. Sarah and Cody's flight back to CO. left on Saturday. Tim, Andrew, Matthew and Aaron had to stay in Memphis for a retreat that Matthew was having today. The retreat was canceled because of the snow. Had they have known, they could have come in with Monica. Oh well that's what happens when there are so many family members.
All in all it was a wonderful day and we are truly blest to have such a large and beautiful family.


Coming next week: SOME OF MY MOST EMBARASSING MOMENTS


Friday, February 27, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAVID!!






















YHAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR DAVID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.




Grandaddy and I can't believe you are already four years old. You are getting to be SO BIG. We wish we could have been there for this special day. I hope you and Luke and Charlotte had lots of fun and ate lots of cake and ice cream and played and played all day long.



Look how much you have grow since these pictures. Happy birthday again and we love you THIS MUCH.






We will come and see you in March. HUGS AND KISSES. NYYYYYYYYYYY YOU.


PS: Jonathan picture of John was supposed to a picture of you. So much for my skills. Thinking of you anyway.









Tuesday, February 24, 2009

LIFE LESSONS





I just got in from work a little bit ago, John picked up Emily at the school bus stop and I thought I would try to think of something to write about. It has been very slow moving this month. For a month to be the shortest of the year, it sometimes takes the longest to past. I think maybe it is because it is winter and cold and I don't get out and do much outside. Every day I think this is the day that I get back out and start walking, but by the time I get off work I put it off one more day. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. Life lesson: Always put off til tomorrow what you should have done today.

I did finish a couple more pictures this past week. I wonder how many you need to have a starving artist sale, although I would have a hard time passing for a starving anything. The barn picture puts me in mind of the barn that we had on our farm when I was a kid. I was scared to death to go out to the barn because I was afraid of the horse, cow, pig and even the chickens. We didn't move to the farm until I was about seven or eight years old, so I didn't grow up with all those animals and I just never could warm up to any of them. Life lesson: If you aren't around animals when you are little you just don't turn out to be an animal person. Sorry

The beach picture makes me think of all the vacations we have taken to Gulf Shores and Myrtle Beach. There is nothing like walking along the beach and picking up seashells and watching the seagulls. I don't care to go into the water though and if I do it is just to wade where the water breaks. When I was little my brother Bruce and I got caught up in and undertow and was almost swept out, but was rescued by a couple that pulled us to safety. Mother couldn't swim so she was just sitting on a blanket watching us in the shallow water and she thought the couple was just playing with us. She didn't know anything was wrong until they informed her that we could have drown. Life lesson:Don't take your kids to the beach if you can't swim.

Bruce and I were always close growing up and usually into lots of trouble. We usually got a spanking every day whether we needed it or not. Mother would get a switch and tell us if we ran from her, we would get a harder spanking. Bruce would always run and hide and I was afraid to because I didn't want a harder spanking. I really couldn't see that his was any different from mine. Life lesson: Run for you life.

One time when we lived in Bogalussa La.(?) The neighbor call the police because we picked up rocks from their driveway. I must have been 4 and Bruce was 6. And there was the time when we lived in North Carolina and we pulled a icebox over on us. The icebox fell in front of the back door and Mother and Daddy was outside washing the car and heard the crash of two kids, icebox and a fifty lb block of ice falling to the floor. They couldn't get in the back door and had to run around to the front and pull the icebox off us. After the initial relief of realizing that we weren't dead, we both got a spanking. Life lesson: Play dead as long as it takes.

Bruce would have been 66 years old the 25 th of Feb. Life lesson: Remember the good times. To hell with the bad.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

VISITING FRANCE AND ROME































After we got back from Sweden, we spent the couple of week just hanging out with David and exploring around Germany. We took the train and went to several small towns and visited a couple of castles. We took a long weekend and went to a small town in France. It was in the wine country and the scenery was just beautiful, flowers everywhere, it was like stepping back in time. We stayed in a small hotel and slept with the windows open onto a small balcony. There was a church just across the street and when they rung the chimes the sound was almost deafening yet pleasant to hear.



We went to a really nice resturant while we were there. There was an elderly lady eating alone and it was amazing to watch her eat. It was almost like an art. She was served a large chafer of red wine and a whole carp. When I looked over after she was finished with this course, the only thing left of the fish was the skeleton. She had started at the head and ate the whole thing except the bones. In the mean time she drank the whole bottle of red wine. Then she was served cheese and later a desert along with a small chafer of white wine. She was still finishing the last of the wine when we left. I had to hope that she was either walking or didn't have far to drive. I guess wine is more of a staple in France than in the south.




When we were down to our last two weeks of vacation. We decided we would take a trip to Rome. Sondra could not go with us because she had to work. She booked us a flight and a hotel for our four day stay. I think she was actually surprised that we took this adventure by ourselves, but I figured if we got lost we would get lost together.




We flew into the Rome airport and then had to take almost an hour train ride in the the city. Everything went great, no problems at all, and we were patting ourselves on the back. We had directions to the hotel which was just one block down and just a short walk to the left. Three hours later we were still walking up and down and around and around the same area. It was hotter than a two dollar pistol, the sweat was rolling down our backs and our clothes were soaking wet. We finally got a taxi which is a real no no. The driver charged us $100.00, drove us the long way around the block and let us off at the wrong hotel. We finally made it back to the train station, and a service desk attendant finally walked us to the hotel which was one block down and just to the left. We were looking for a big sign for the hotel and this was a sign about a foot tall and a foot and a half wide fitting flat against the wall among a bunch of other signs. I could go on and on about trying to actually get into the hotel and finding the person in charge and trying to get the air conditioner to work for the first two days, but I won't. This was a bad start to an otherwise wonderful visit.




We took a couple of bus tours and visited the Vatican. I was a little disappointed in the fact that the commericalism detracted from the beauty of the whole place. The tourist were herded through and there was no time just to stand and reflect on the awesomeness of the surroundings. I guess it was because we went at the peak tourist season, but at least we can say "been there,done that".


The traffic was unreal. It was as though everyone had the right away and took it. You were taking you life in your hands to cross the street, because buses, cars and motor scooters were coming at you from all directions.


We ate in some great little cafes and the food was delicious. The pizza was different but really good.


We were glad that we took the venture and made it on our own. We may forget some of the places and things that we saw, but we will never forget trying to find the Termini Hotel.











Tuesday, February 17, 2009

RUNAWAY BLAZER

I have got to tell you all this while I am still chuckling about it.

John has been kind of under the weather, so this morning when I ask him if he would like to get out for awhile, I didn't know if he would go out or not. He said it would probably make him feel better to get some fresh air. We went to Heart's Crys and then decided to go into town where they had opened another thrift store ( you know our passion for those.) We looked around for a little bit and decided to go home.

We had started out of town, when John ask if I wanted to stop and get a bite to eat. Well I am never going to turn down an opportunity to eat out. We stopped at Sonic and ordered a chicken tender basket. We sat there for about 15 minutes eating, talking and people watching. I looked up and I said to John, "have we rolled?". Well we could see the menu board and speaker up in front of us about a car length and a half. We had ever so slowly rolled into the middle of the drive threw and were sitting right smack dab in the middle of it just eating and talking. We had noticed that other cars were cutting us a wide path, but figured they were dodging something else. We didn't realize it was us. When we figured out what happened we pulled up and sat there and laughed until we both had tears running down our cheeks.

Just another reason not to take yourself to seriously.

Monday, February 16, 2009

OUR TRIP TO SWEDEN




This past summer Sondra wanted us to come back and visit her in Germany, so once again we made the transatlantic flight to Europe. We were not hardly as apprehensive this time. We left on July 3 rd and this time we were staying for six weeks. This was hard to do since were leaving the other grand kids for such a long time. We were use to being with Luke and Charlotte everyday and seeing John Pearson and Emily almost everyday. We decided that everyone could take care of themselves without John and I being here.




The first week we were in Germany we adjusted to our jet lack and rested for a couple of days. After we had been there for a week we left on a five day trip to Sweden. That was the most exciting part of the whole trip for John. Since the Sundquist came from Sweden John felt kind of like Alex Haley searching for his roots. Sondra had contacted a distant relative to let them know that we were coming to Sweden and would like to touch base with them while we were there.

These people were unbelievable, they told us to come and stay in a bungalow that they had and to just make ourselves at home. The bungalow was right on the bay and the view was just breathtaking. I felt like I was staying in a Southern Living Magazine layout. Curt took us out on one of his tourist boat, we went out and ate authentic Swedish meatballs served with ligion (?) berry preserves. We also went to visit the old Sundquist home place. It had deteriorated and not much left of it, but to be standing in the same spot that your ancestors stood gave even me goose pumps. Both John and Curt got a little misty eyed. Over in a area that was grown over with vine was an old sled, probably used by John's great grandad when he was a boy.

Sweden is probably the most beautiful place we visited. The wild flowers grew along the side of the roads and looked as though they had been hand sewn. Flying over the area it looked like you could literally see the land coming up from the ocean. We were there at a great time, because it was daylight almost 24 hours a day. It was a once in a lifetime experience.

Going and coming to Ullanger we stayed the night in Upssila, which was a beautiful town with a college and the students were lounging and picnicing along the canal that ran through town. We flew into a smaller airport, but drove through Stocholm. We were able to see the Royal Castle from a distance. We were so glad that we were able to make this wonderful side trip.
Yet another place I never thought I would see.

PS the pictures are of the Sundquist home place.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

TO MY SWEETHEARTS ON VALENTINE'S DAY
















Happy Valentine's day to all our grand children.. John Pearson, Emily, Andrew, Matthew, Aaron, David, Luke and Charlotte. Hope you all had fun. Since I didn't send cards through the mail, this will be your special Valentine card.

HUGS AND KISSES, HUGS AND KISSES, HUGS AND KISSES.

LOVE YOU ALL. MAWMAW AND GRAND DADDY.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

SCOUTING IS HARD WORK







Monica sent me these pictures of Andrew and Matthew's recent scouting event at a cave camp out. They spent the weekend exploring the cave, crawling into nooks and crannies, looking at the formations of rocks, falling asleep listening to whole group of scouts and leaders snoring simantaniously, cooking out and eating inside the cavern.






They sure looked full of pep and energy at the beginning of the trip, but that all changed on the way back. I think they slept most of the five hour trip home. It's a good thing Tim was not as zonked as the boys.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

HAVING A ROUGH WEEK

Well I hate to complain, but this has been the most frustrating week I have had in a long time. It started out great, went had a long weekend in Memphis, but it has been down hill from there. Of course I went back to work on Tuesday and had a very long day about 12 hours. Then had to be back in this morning at 5:45, but I can handle that. Now I know that I am not the smartest person in the world but I don't think I'm as dumb as a stump.

We have been in this on going battle over the email address change for almost two weeks. I reckon everything that has had that email address on it is completely screwed up. The only real people that you can reach to talk to are Jeff or Lisa somewhere in deepest India. It is funny, when you first start talking to them they sound like you are talking to an english speaking person, but the longer you talk to heavier accent they have and suddenly you understand nothing they are saying. I start wondering if I have had a stroke or am I standing under the tower of Bable. After about an hour Jeff tells me to hold on and he will switch me to someone who can for certain help me. CLICK........ Then the operator comes on and says "If you want to make a call, please hang up and dial again".


I can't understand why with all this confusion, that we can't receive a payment to my account, but they continue to take out service charges. Same account, same address, same email address. It seems I'm putting water in a bucket with a hole in it. I am beginning to think the computer is a means to get rid of everyone over 50. Why resort to euthanisia, when you can just drive people crazy with a computer. I hope Jeff and Lisa feel really bad when they read the obits and it says "Pat was found with one fist threw the computer screen and the other clutching the mouse".

I promise after to day I will blog about kids, grand kids, vacations, aches and pains, but not about my computer woes.
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Monday, February 9, 2009

STAYING BUSY

We have been very busy the last few days. I have things to post but I will have to do that tomorrow or the next day. We went to Memphis this weekend and just got in time to day to pick up Emily after school.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!

As of tomorrow I will be having my 64th birthday. It is hard to define how you feel about having another birthday. I am glad I made it to celebrate another, because I had friends that didn't make it this far. On the other hand you start to notice that people look at you differently as you get older. Like when I first started to work I was one of the younger women working there ( age 45 ) and everyone treated me like a kid and thought I didn't know anything. ( which I didn't ). Now everyone calls me Miss Pat and assumes that I should know everything, ( which I don't). It is the comments about why are you still working that get me. Younger people assume that when you hit about 50 you should give up your life as you know it and start the down hill decline. I still work because I need the pay check for one thing, but I feel I actually have more to offer at this point in my life. I don't have children that I have to put first, so I don't miss any work because of that. I don't have to worry about maturnity leave, baby sitters and missing special days at their school. I don't have to worry about what to fix for dinner after working all day. John and I will heat up whatever and make it fine. So it is much easier now than it was when the kids were all home.

Having another birthday make you think back to other birthdayS. I wonder how mother felt 64 years ago today. Was she scared, how big was she, was she excited to have another baby? She tells me that one Feb 4th it was so warm outside that I had a birthday party outside. I remember having my thirteenth birthday party at our house on Bridge Road. I still have pictures of that. I remember turning 16 and learning to drive although I didn't try for my drivers licence until I was 18. The year I turned 21 John and I had been married just a month and Mother, Daddy, Wayne and Robbie surprised me with a birthday cake at our appartment.
The next year John and I had a nice dinner at a fancy resturant and I almost choked on a bread tie that had been french fried with the onion rings. The following year we had Johnny, then Monica, then Sondra, then Mark, then Sarah, so it was quite a number of year after that that I just don't recall vivid memories of my birthdays. I know they were all special, but there comes a time in your life that it is not all about ME, I was more concerned about my family than my birthday.

I know this sounds a little morbid but at this stage of my life I realize that there are more years to look back on than to look forward to. I'm closer to 100 than 1. I will continue to enjoy myself. LIFE IS SHORT, LIVE IT ANYWAY.